Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Missed Opportunities with Relationships
It happened again today. I was going to the grocery store after work and as soon as I parked I see this girl who catches my attention. She had glasses like me and she looked like a single independent young woman, someone I could totally see myself going out with. Right away I was nervous. I actually paused for a moment so we wouldn't go in at the same time, but despite my efforts, we still did go in at about the same time.
We both got carts and went separate ways. Missed opportunity I thought. A few minute later, by chance I run into her again alone in an isle. It was the perfect opportunity to go up and talk to her. Now normally I would never do something like this. I just wouldn't feel comfortable doing it and I would feel like I was inconveniencing her or something.
Funny thing is, I had just watched a video on Youtube by SimplePickup and they had advice exactly for this situation. It was running through my head. Basically the advice was that even if you are nervous and don't know what to say, just go up and start talking. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Even with this mind set, I still chickened out and walked past her without talking to her.
It makes me think, will I ever be able to do something like that and just randomly approach a girl who I might be interested in.
I go shopping at this store about the same time at least once a week. I made a promise to myself, if I see her again, I must approach her and talk to her. No excuses! I have missed way too many opportunities in the past. I can't let it keep happening.